Aug 23, 2009

Dragonflies

Those of you close to me have heard my story about how I have had dragonflies all around me since Josh died. I know it is a sign from our sweet son, you may say I am crazy (maybe so?) but we cannot deny those things we experience. I see them everywhere, including dragonfly merchandise at stores.

There is a legend about Dragonflies; the story is that they appear after someone close to you has just passed. The dragonfly is said to symbolize the soul of a lost loved one and that they represent that your loved one is still near you as they live on in immortality. I am not sure why or where that legend began, but I can only share what experiences I have personally had happen to me.

I was lucky enough to capture some of them on my cell phone camera, and I've had several times where they've LANDED on me! Actually flown to me and landed on my finger!!! (Even Joe was shocked when he saw it, and took a picture) This is not a coincidence...The funny thing is that they are now my new friends! This weekend I've had the chance to hold a few, experience a dozen or so flying near me and taking them in up close. (SEE PIC's BELOW AS PROOF)

Here is the story of the dragonfly that is used to explain death to young children. I had to include it as well, since I have run across it so often recently. I also included a picture of the shed I painted while Joe was out of town last week. While I was painting I seemed to have an abundance of Dragonflies surrounding me.

The Dragonfly
Once, in a little pond, in the muddy water under the lily pads, there lived a little water beetle in a community of water beetles. They lived a simple and comfortable life in the pond with few disturbances and interruptions.
Once in a while, sadness would come to the community when one of their fellow beetles would climb the stem of a lily pad and would never be seen again. They knew when this happened; their friend was dead, gone forever.
Then, one day, one little water beetle felt an irresistible urge to climb up that stem. However, he was determined that he would not leave forever. He would come back and tell his friends what he had found at the top.
When he reached the top and climbed out of the water onto the surface of the lily pad, he was so tired, and the sun felt so warm, that he decided he must take a nap. As he slept, his body changed and when he woke up, he had turned into a beautiful blue-tailed dragonfly with broad wings and a slender body designed for flying.
So, fly he did! And, as he soared he saw the beauty of a whole new world and a far superior way of life to what he had never known existed.
Then he remembered his beetle friends and how they were thinking by now he was dead. He wanted to go back to tell them, and explain to them that he was now more alive than he had ever been before. His life had been fulfilled rather than ended.
But, his new body would not go down into the water. He could not get back to tell his friends the good news. Then he understood that their time would come, when they, too, would know what he now knew. So, he raised his wings and flew off into his joyous new life!
~Author Unknown~

The shed's new look. Taupe and Black instead of cream and tan

A large red dragonfly, this is one that kept watch over me a lot

It just flew to me and landed on my finger...
Joe had time to get his phone to take a pic for me!


Another close-up of my 'red' friend

One of the many other dragonflies that sat outside and watched

And yet another...

My little 'red' friend landed again on my finger and though
I had paint on me he didn't mind. He stayed on me for over 5 min.
I do have my lil' brother Adam and Joe as witness LOL

Aug 17, 2009

A Weekend To Remember...

Joe and I had a wonderful weekend! Zach and Sara and the boys (Mason and Carter) came to Utah for the weekend. It was so great having our kids together again. We were also able to see most of our extended family and enjoy every ones company. The weekend included going to Marc and Betty's for a wedding shower and a BBQ. An awesome massage, and a great night staying up late playing games. I'm shocked we didn't wake up Bree with our laughter. (Since she spent the night with us) The kids got to golf with their Dad and go to a late movie. A whirlwind and fun few days. Thanks for coming Zach and Sara, we sure enjoy our time together!

Our game night included eating a Harry Potter jelly bean if you lost the round. The jellybeans were flavored and you never knew if you'd get a fruit flavor or one of the disgusting jellybeans like....vomit, booger, rotten egg, skunk spray, baby wipe, moldy cheese or pencil shavings. YUK!! Trust me, I had to try most all of them thanks to my horrible luck. Yes, I was the entertainment gagging and trying to spit them out. But, I had fun regardless of the sick and nasty flavor that wouldn't go away after eating each bean when I lost. We decided that I won't be going to Vegas anytime soon since my luck sucked. Joe on the other hand won almost every round, and if he did loose...he'd get lucky and get a fruity bean instead of one of the gross ones! No fair. Maybe he should go to Vegas?!

The next day Joe and the kids went golfing for 2 rounds of 9 holes on 2 different courses. They had a ball (no pun intended). We later went to Mueller Park Canyon for a hot dog roast and more family fun. We had so much fun cooking hot dogs over the fire, and making S'mores and playing games. The kids all loved the water and just running around. Here are a few pics that showed how much fun we had. It was so nice to smile, laugh and feel the comfort of spending time with our family. Thanks everyone for making it such a great weekend! We love you and are grateful for such an awesome family! I only wish I had pics of the shower, BBQ and those that couldn't make the Canyon.

THE BEST KIDS EVER!!!
Our Children...minus our late son Joshua
(Zach, Ashley, Cory)

"FUN IN the CANYON"

Darcie being silly (My brother Darren's daughter)

My Sis-n-Law Jessie (My brother Adam's wife)
and her belly full of Gabriella. You look so cute Jessie!

Joe snuggling up to Carter (Zach and Sara's newest son) Ahhh!

My Mom and Dad (Bill and Judeen) Aren't they cute?!

Karen Denning (My other Mother) She is AWESOME!

My baby bro Adam and his wife Jessie

My brother Matt and his family
(Matt, Elllie, Emma, Samantha and Colin)

My brother Darren and his family
(Jill, Darren, Darcie and Ben)

Our son Zach and his family
(Zach, Sara, Mason and Carter)
My mother Judeen after getting one of the "Yucky" jelly beans
We had to play this game again with everyone
just for our free entertainment. HA... LOL
Mason (our oldest grandson) savoring a bite
of brownie that Ashley was sharing w/him.

Mason (Zach and Sara's son) enjoying the stream
and throwing rocks in the water.
Oh the adventure of the Mountains and Nature.
Mason LOVED it in the Canyon.

Aug 7, 2009

'30' Year Class Reunion

Wow, it is sad when you realize that you are no longer young and hip when you are attending your 30th Class Reunion of high school. (We want to think we are still somewhat cool and hip overall ) Joe and I went to high school together, however my 30th isn't until next year. (HA) It is fun to see those people you went to school with and those that you associated so much with during high school. Joe and I both went to Bountiful High School and so we both know a ton of the same friends. I still think Joe is a 'hottie' and realize that while we are aging, we don't look so bad after all! You can see why I was swept off my feet!

My "HOTTIE" husband back in the day...

He is the one that is up front and looks like Patrick Swayze! Joe and I dating in high school. We were inseparable.

So much so that we 'tied the knot' when Joe was a senior and I was a junior! Our wedding on December 20th, 1978