We ask that as we are trying to heal from this devastating loss, that you all remember Josh for the man he was; not for the way he left. He was truly an amazing person that made a difference in so many people's lives.
Joshua was a warm, caring and fun person who always made you laugh. He chose to keep his pain hidden, always instead choosing to give to others, rather than himself. He knew more practical jokes than anyone; keeping you constantly on your toes for fear you might be the next victim of a prank. Josh had big dreams, he was just starting school again...had just finished his basement and just finished setting up his dream aquarium. Josh planned to live, he had so many projects and things that were recently completed or ongoing in preparation for his future. His future with his family, his dreams and his passions. Someone that wanted to die, would not have had the energy nor the ambition to do the things that Josh was doing.
We will forever remember Josh as the impressionist imitating Jim Carrey, or Scooby Doo, or Sesame Street Characters; his personality certainly made Josh the life of the party. Josh knew when you needed a shoulder, an ear to listen or somebody to help in any situation. He was a hard worker, a person with impeccable integrity and a true friend to so many. Our family could tell so many stories of the numerous times Josh made us smile and laugh.
There was no explanation to ease the pain and no chance to say good-bye...we will forever miss him and hope everyone will avoid asking, "Why", and "What If"... BUT... instead ask, "What Can I Learn From This"? We hope to be able to make a difference in other's lives and pass the test of how we handle this tragedy. Please love those close to you, don't take anything for granted and please cherish life. Until someone or something is gone, you don't realize how important it was; until you no longer have it. We as a family would ask that you seek out those that may be in need of a friend, and watch for those hidden "signs" that we all over look. If we can but save one life by making a difference, it will bring some peace to Joshua's memory.
(We've included some pictures of Joshua during his life as a tribute, most recent to newborn)
Taken on Memorial Day to visit their son Ryken's grave. Josh is buried next to Ryken now.
Lovin' on PresLee
Showing off PresLee (his pride and joy)
Birth of the twin's Ryken Joshua and PresLee Kate
Brother's and Sister
Wedding Day: September 29th, 2001
Josh's Mission Call
Senior Pic- Davis High Class of '98
Josh as a sophmore
7th Grade
5th Birthday
3 yrs old 
1 yr old
5 months old
The day we brought Josh home from hospitalWe love you Josh, we will always and forever keep you in our hearts and memories until we meet again....
Mom and Dad
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7 comments:
My heart continues to break over this tragic situation. In so many ways this still just doesn't seem real, and how I wish it wasn't! I am so sorry for you both. The loss of a child is one that no parent should ever have to face. You are both wonderful parents and I feel blessed and honored to be part of your family. I know that Joshua loved you both so much and will always watch over you until you are able to see him again someday. I will continue to keep you in my prayers and will always be thankful for the short time that I did know Josh. He was a great man and I know that he is doing all he can to continue helping others in heaven. I love you both more than you know!
Love, Sara
What a nice tribute for your son. We personally didn't know Josh, but we knew him through you both. Our hearts have been breaking for you all the last couple of weeks. You guys are a special family and Larry and I cherish our friendship. I agree with you 100 percent on not asking "why" but remember how much you love him and how much he loves you! And what a great person he was here on earth and continues to be....remember we are always here for you both...Love, Jackie and Larry and Harley
That was a great tribute for Joshua, I think that he would have approved. I am sure you already know how sorry we are as a family but we can learn and move ahead from this and be even a stronger family moving forward together enjoying our time and laughing and having new memories to look upon. We love you and keep you in our prayers. Like Josh would say Alrighty Then!
Adam
Oh Uncle Joe and Aunt Steph, I have tears streaming down my cheeks, what an unbelievable tribute! You are in our thoughts and prayers and hope you all find peace within yourselves. You are an incredible family and we love you!
There are no better parents then Joe and Stephanie Denning. Life brings challenges but also triumphs. Joe you are completely right, Satan is powerful there is not a lot you can do once you begin the walk. I know Josh was not himself that morning. You are wonderful people. Remember the bright, don't ask why, stay close to your brother Jesus Christ and remember the Atonement and the suffering that Jesus Christ suffered so we can be forgiven. In my mind Josh is already forgiven and in the arms of his loving relatives and his Heavenly Father and Mother and his brother Jesus Christ. What a wonderful reunion. He will watch over his family. May God be with you both. I know there are many prayers out here for your family.
This was a very nice tribute to Josh. Unfortunately, the time I was able to spend with Josh over the years was short and infrequent. Those vistis were always special and left me with good memories. Josh will live on in my memory and in the memories of those who were fortunate enough to have known him, as a very special, kind, loving person. All of our lives were enriched by having known him.
Bill
What a great tribute. He will be missed but we can also rejoice in his wonderful life and the knowledge that he is on the other side looking down on us and working with the Lord. We keep you in our prayers and know that you are and will become stronger through this. With the Lords help all things are possible. I love you!
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